Chapter 2
Throat Cancer
May 9, 2014
Dr. Schrimpf called to inform me that he wanted a PET/CT scan on my entire body. He explained that the lump was cancerous but he believed that it was very treatable. He promised that his Cincinnati office would be calling shortly to schedule the scan. He tried to downplay the seriousness of the diagnosis but I could tell in his voice that he wasn't pleased with the results. He wasn't pleased?! What the hell. Bob, how in the world can I have cancer? I'm healthy, I'm not losing weight except the stress related fat since I decided to retire. I felt that I was in great shape!
By the end of the day, his office manager called to schedule the scan for May 14 at Dearborn County Hospital in Lawrenceburg, Indiana. I was to expect a 1 to 2 hour scan and I was not to eat any carbohydrates prior to the scan. I tried to keep myself thinking positive. It's incredible how different your mind starts to work when you get a diagnosis of cancer.
I've spent my life as an educator, trying to do the best that I could to provide the best possible educational opportunities for my students. That idea didn't always sit well with some parents and Board members. Sometimes, their political ambitions and selfish motives got in the way of what was best for the students.
However, I always worked hard to meet the needs of my students and their families. Now, instead of thinking of others, my mind starts to shift towards thinking of how to help myself. I feel uncomfortable with this shift of thinking.
May 14, 2014
Arriving at the hospital 30 minutes prior to the scan I tried to remain positive as I chatted with the staff and completed the check-in process. I was ushered into a small room and given an injection of radioactive dye. An hour later, after the dye had a chance to spread through my body, I was lying on an uncomfortable table sliding through a large donut shaped machine. It was almost 2 hours before they completed the scan.
The two staff members were helpful and promised to get the results to my doctor within a week.
May 15, 2014
I spent the day babysitting for my granddaughter, Mallory, and tried not to think about my cancer. That was difficult but playing games with Mallory kept me busy and the time passed quickly. By 3:00 p.m. I was at daughter's house waiting for my oldest granddaughter Alys. My wife Connie arrived shortly after Alys got off the bus. We all headed to Dr. Schrimpf's office for my follow-up visit.
As usual, JoAnne kept us laughing and we had the pleasure of meeting and talking with a couple other patients. Alys and Mallory played with the toys until our son and daughter came to pick them up. Connie and I then went to have a serious talk with Dr. Schrimpf.
I was surprised when he stated that he had the results of my scan from yesterday already! He was pleased that the cancer had not spread beyond the base of my tongue. As he checked my throat he stated that he would guess that I would need to endure both chemotherapy and radiation. He knew some doctors at the University of Cincinnati that he wanted me to see. He suggested that I speak with them prior to starting any treatment. They were part of a cancer team and they would be worth the expense of putting together a plan of attack.
I was still in a bit of shock from the initial diagnosis but I listened intently to his advice. He stated that this could be a six to eight week round of treatments. I would most likely lose my hair, beard as well as some of my sense of taste. It was not going to be a walk in the park but he was confident that I could beat this unexpected guest. As Connie and I drove home I decided to make some phone calls.
May 16, 2014
Today was busy with telephone calls. Connie and I decided to be as proactive as we could so when we didn't hear from Dr. Schrimpf's office, we called them to ask if they had contacted Dr. Patel at U.C. They had and were waiting for his return call. Dr. Bob was on the case!!
By the end of the day, both doctors' offices called to confirm an appointment for Wednesday afternoon, May 21st. I was glad that we were being aggressive. I wanted this unexpected guest gone, the sooner the better.
I decided to now try to keep myself busy in my woodworking shop and meeting with a Task Force working with the Sister's of St. Francis, in Oldenburg. I also let my pastor know of my illness and he asked that I catch him after Saturday evening liturgy.
Saturday, May 17
Connie had a great idea that if I would start a Blog and post some pictures, it may help with keeping me busy and maybe help someone in the future when they stumble across my ramblings. So today, I decided to take a "selfie" with my laptop and then periodically post my mug shot.
Monday, May 19
I've been waking up by 3:00 a.m. from the pain in my throat and ear. I am still trying to keep to the "over-the-counter" medications. I'd like to stay away from the prescriptions until absolutely necessary. Connie spoke with her brother who went through treatments and didn't use any prescriptions. He's a trooper!
Guess I'll watch the early news and catch up on emails.
Wow, received calls from both Dr. Schrimpf (his wonderful wife, JoAnne), and Debbie from Dr. Patel's office at University of Cincinnati. They wanted to reassure me that they were exchanging medical information in preparation for Wednesday's appointment.